|
Emotional intelligence is the ability to
perceive emotions, to access
and generate emotions so as to assist thought, to
understand emotions and
emotional knowledge, and to reflectively regulate emotions so as to promote
emotional and intellectual growth.
- Mayer & Salovey, 1997
The model posits four
abilities:
Accurately
perceive or identify emotions
Generate
emotions to facilitate thought
Understand
emotions
Manage emotions
PERCEIVE
EMOTION
Definition
Perceiving or Identifying
Emotions – the
ability to correctly identify how people are feeling, or to identify emotional
content in objects, art, music, etc.
Description
Perceiving Emotions score concerns the ability to recognize how you and those
around you are feeling. The first branch of the emotional intelligence model
involves the capacity to perceive feelings accurately. Emotional perception
involves paying attention to, and accurately decoding, emotional signals in
facial expressions, tone of voice, or artistic expressions.
Accurate appraisal of emotions starts with attending to emotional expressions.
If a person is uncomfortable with other’s expression of negative emotions, for
instance, and they turn away every time they sense another’s discomfort, they
may not perceive accurately that other person’s emotional state.
FACILITATE THOUGHT
Definition
Using Emotions to Facilitate Thought
– the ability to generate emotion, and then
reason with this emotion.
Description
Facilitating Thought is the ability which allows you to employ your feelings to
enhance the cognitive system (thinking) and, as such, can be harnessed for more
effective problem-solving, reasoning, decision-making, and creative endeavors.
Of course, cognition can be disrupted by emotions, such as anxiety and fear, but
emotions also can prioritize the cognitive system to attend to what is important
and even focus on what it does best in a given mood.
Emotions also change the way we think, creating positive thoughts when a person
is happy, and negative when the person is sad. These changes in viewpoint force
us to view things from different perspectives. Such shifting viewpoints may
foster creative thinking.
UNDERSTAND
EMOTION
Definition
Understanding Emotions - the ability to
understand complex emotions and emotional "chains", how emotions transition from
one stage to another.
Description
Emotions form a rich and complexly interrelated symbol set, and many people
discuss the existence of an “emotional language”. The Understanding Emotions
Branch reflects being able to label emotions and to reason with them in an
effective understandable level.
Understanding what leads to various emotions is a critical component of
emotional intelligence. For instance, annoyance and irritation can lead to rage
if the cause of the irritation continues and intensifies. Knowledge of how
emotions combine and change over time is important in our dealings with other
people and in enhancing our self understanding.
MANAGE EMOTION
Definition
Managing Emotions - the ability which
allows you to manage emotions in your self and in others.
Description
Your
Managing Emotions score concerns one’s capacity to manage emotions successfully,
when appropriate. This concerns the fourth branch of the Emotional Intelligence
model. Managing emotions means that you remain open to emotional information at
important times, or closed to it at other times. It means successfully managing
and coping with emotions. It also means working with feelings in a judicious
way, rather than acting on them without thinking. For example, reacting out of
anger can be effective in the short-run, but anger which is channeled and
directed may be more effective in the long-run.
It
is important to understand that the ability to successfully manage emotions
often entails the awareness, acceptance, and use of emotions in problem
solving. When we speak of emotional regulation, some people understand the term
to mean that we are seeking to repress emotion, or to rationalize emotion.
Managing Emotions involves the participation of emotions in thought, and to
allow thought to include emotions. Optimal levels of emotional regulation likely
will neither minimize nor exaggerate emotion.
|